My Story
As a 6-year-old I had my first depression, it made me learn that I had to be the nice and nice girl who had to please everyone all the time. It continued up through my teenage years. As a 13-year-old I was unfortunate enough to be raped. Now you would think that I got help, but I didn’t, it was a different time then, so it wasn’t reported to the police and there wasn’t the same help as today.
My life continued as usual – but nothing was as it used to be, I became more introverted and sad, had trouble concentrating in school and started smoking weed, which eased the pain a little but never completely
Then came the evening and the man who changed my life and it was definitely not for the better. At that time I had turned 17 and very naive. I lived alone in my father’s flat, in a small flat on the 5th floor with no neighbors in Copenhagen.
One night he forced his way into the apartment where he held me captive like a butterfly in a spider’s web. After 3 months of daily confinement, beatings and rape, I finally escaped his clutches with the help of my grandmother and mother.
I ended up in hospital with 23 strangulation marks on my neck, point-shaped bleeding in my eyes, blue and yellow marks from blows and cigarette marks in several places on my body, as well as a mark from a wooden shoe heel on my forehead.
Unfortunately, I didn’t get the help I so badly needed here either. (the abuser received 4 months in prison)
Then again I continued my life of ups and downs where I found myself in the cheese bell. The following year I met my husband, my rock, my support, my great love and the father of my 4 children. He listened and supported me for the next 20 years and still does. Our life continued its usual course of ups and downs and now everything should be good.
It was too, except for my recurring nightmares and mood swings and short tempers, culminated because I being bullied at my job. I was now working in a day care center and was educating to be a cognitive couples therapist, so all in all my life seemed to be working, at least my life looked good from the outside. From the inside it was a completely different matter, I felt terrible.
That’s why it didn’t come as a big surprise when I was hit by stress, it was more the way it happened that surprised me.
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